How To Lick The Clitoris The Right Way!

Oral sex in a woman can be difficult because the clitoris is so sensitive. Use these simple but effective techniques to perform oral sex on your partner and bring her to an orgasmic frenzy!

Why lick her clitoris the WRONG way

Most women respond well to clitoral stimulation outside of the clitoral hood. The clitoris is often too sensitive to withstand direct stimulation. Many men, however, force themselves to go directly to her own clitoris, which can be really uncomfortable!

An external approach works best after all, protecting the head of the clitoris is exactly what the hood was designed for. There is no need to dig with your tongue under the clitoral hood to find the head this will only cause extreme discomfort and in some cases, even pain.

Don't forget, however, that you also need to develop a rhythm and maintain it, especially near orgasm. With that in mind, let's look at some of the proper tongue techniques in more detail.

Passing your tongue over the clitoris

This move is great! It just feels great a woman and should be a staple of any oral sex routine. It's a pretty easy move. Simply place your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move from one side to the other as if you were sweeping the floor.

Clitoral circles

And this is one of the best and most enjoyable clitoral techniques in cunnilingus. You'll want to use it often, because it can rarely get boring! The technique is somewhat self-explanatory and again, you will place your tongue either on the left or right of your partner's clitoris. You will begin to move your tongue in a circular motion, either clockwise or counterclockwise.

This sensation is excellent when your partner is quite aroused because it gives the clitoris plenty of stimulation outside the hood where it is well received, but once your tongue reaches the 6:00 position on the clock, she will have a wonderful feeling of your tongue on the sensitive head of her clitoris but not so much that it is uncomfortable.

Light suction on the clitoris

This is a move best performed when your partner is quite aroused. Sucking too early in the game can turn her off completely, putting too much pressure on her sensitive points too soon.

You should take her clitoris gently in your mouth and suck it lightly as if you were drinking from a straw. Remember: don't get too hard with this movement! This can be done easily, so it is very important to pay attention to your partner's reactions and movements. If she seems to shrink before her orgasm, reduce the suction or stop sucking.

Remember AB

You may or may not have heard of this oral sex technique before. This is probably the best technique out there, so listen up!

It may sound funny, but you will again place your tongue (a pointed one works best here) either on the side or on top of her clitoris and start using your tongue to draw your AB.

This gives your partner a feel to the clitoris since most of the movement is done outside the hood of the clitoris, while only a few movements end up making contact with the head of the clitoris itself and it just feels great.

The AB method is so powerful because it gives just the right amount of contact to both the clitoral hood and the head of the clitoris, while at the same time mixing things up. The different letters you'll erase with your tongue give you enough variety to keep your partner perplexed and on the verge of orgasm! Very few men with sufficiently aroused partners have gotten as far as the letter Z.

The mess

Basically, this move includes all the other techniques such as tongue circles or gentle suction. You should use an oral sex position where you cradle both feet in your hands her thigh will be in the crease of your elbow and your hands should come around and rest on her hip bones and... go!

This is a move where the pose really pays off. You have to act like you're hungry and can't get enough. By the same token, though, you have to keep in mind that the clitoris is very sensitive and even though you may be doing it like a pie-eating contest, you don't want to be a caveman and abuse it. Maintaining a balance between the two is really what makes this move worthwhile.