How to Know What Your Partner Likes in Bed


Getting to know our partner sexually is an art
But theory is one thing, practice is another. In our minds, we certainly know exactly what our partner likes and dislikes, but are you absolutely sure you know it all?
What are your partner's sexual fantasies? What are the hidden (or not so hidden) stimuli that trigger your arousal? Is there anything you'd like to try? What are your favorite positions? Does your partner know everything you like? If you don't know for sure how to answer these questions, bring out your more artistic side and get to work on creating your best seller of sexuality.

 Meet the characters

Do you think the way you perceive yourself in bed corresponds to the way your partner sees you? Even if the answer is yes, let's start this story by checking if we're right.

To do this, we suggest an exercise for which you should sit down and write a description of your partner in which you answer questions such as

What is your favorite thing to do in bed? What is your favorite thing he does to you?  
What qualities do you think he or she possesses? In what areas could he improve?
What practices would you like to try?
Do you prefer to do it at night or during the day? Why?
What desire would you like to fulfill?
Then share the texts to see if you were right.

The importance of communication

Communication exists under the covers, either by saying something or by total silence. We communicate at all times! And no, you don't have to cut the roll, quite the opposite.
In order to better understand our partner and understand what we like and, ultimately, to have fun, it is necessary to have clues and not to infer. To do this, you can guide yourself with these 7 questions and build a sexy, healthy and fun eroticism together:  

Do you want me to keep doing this or do you want me to change?  
Do you like it? I'd really like your guidance.  
Do you want to change positions?  
Would you like to try something new?  
Do you want me to continue? Or would you like a special treat?  
If you do it to me with that kind of pressure/velocity, it won't take me long at all...
I love that you're doing this to me, don't stop.

This has just begun!

Write a love story together. The idea is to create a story built by more than one person. To do this, one of you should start the story with a sentence and the other person will repeat what they said and add a new bit.

The idea is that, as this is an exercise in which memory, and therefore concentration, is important, imagination is much less constrained by internal judgement. Furthermore, none of the participants have control over the whole story, as it is built collectively, which means that the outcome is always different, original and gives you the freedom to let your fantasies fly, which will help you get to know each other better. .
 You will see how, after putting these exercises into practice, your sexual relationships become more satisfying and enjoyable. And, as someone once said, knowledge is power.

 

Author: Mike Z


The written word as a form of expression is the ultimate fetish in my world.

 

And when everything you write has to do with sex then writing becomes a particularly enjoyable process.

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